Thank You and Appreciation Ideas

The long overdue thank-you

Our too-hectic lives have a way of pulling us in every direction at once. So it's not surprising that we sometimes lose track of people, even those who have affected our lives in positive ways—a former teacher, a childhood friend, even a family member.

Making It Personal
How should you get in touch? While there's no single "right" approach, there's still nothing like a handwritten message on distinctive stationery or a card. Putting in just a little time and effort to send something heartfelt really helps show your appreciation.

For Starters
A few suggestions to get things going:

• I know it's been a long time...
• This may seem out of the blue...
• Even though we haven't been in touch, I think of you often...
• It's amazing how fast time goes by...
• It seems like only yesterday that...

Tips for Communicating

• Help your recipient remember who you are. Your first-grade teacher has had hundreds of students so what's the detail that will bring you immediately to mind?
• Write simply and from the heart. Be yourself. There's no reason to search for grand-sounding words. Your sincerity is what counts.
• Be sure your handwriting's legible. (Otherwise, print or type.)
• Say it once, then stop. Less is more. It's the thought, not the volume of words, that matters.

Do Good, Feel Good
We all know how wonderful a thank-you can feel, especially one that's unexpected. So go ahead—get in touch. Send that note or card. You'll make someone's day. And you'll feel pretty great yourself.